Saturday, 20 June 2020

Dipression kills! "Sushant Singh Rajput"




Sushant Singh Rajput

I was not a Sushant fan until now. When i came to know he had done the heart wrenching act of hanging himself, I didn’t sympathies with him.

However, last 3 days, I have been watching his videos and now I understand that he was a brilliant personality, brilliant Actor and very kind hearted man with a beautiful heart.

I wonder we could not notice this when he was alive. Only now after his death we found the time to focus on his goodness.

We often value people when it’s too late.

This is my personal experience. I found it very difficult to draw his face. It took me 3 days. But it was worth the effort.

How I wish you had spoken up about What you were going through.....?


Thursday, 4 June 2020

“Inhuman”

#motherslove #keralaincident #saveawildlife #saveanimals #kerala!
Don’t have words to express views on brutal murder. This picture took my heart away! Mother is a mother in any form. My eyes were wet while making this picture! All I can say #humancruelity.

Sunday, 3 May 2020

“Ram”

Shree Ram! The name brings positivity within us. It emits  positiveness. I always wondered why people are very fascinated by Shree Ram. Why do they admire him? I didn’t know yet, and then in this lockdown started watching old Ramayan series. There is no dearth of Gods in India. But I must say everyone should watch Ramanand sagar Ramayan (1989). I discovered many things in Ramayan which can make you a good human being.

I personally feel every Indian should know about Shree Ram. Not because he is a Hindu God. But because of the man he is....the person he is....I bet he will instil kindness within you. This is my personal opinion. I saw my 2 year old daughter getting so engrossed with Shree Ram while watching Ramayan. We never forced her to watch. On her own she liked watching Ramayan. Every time when ramayan character bowed their head. She followed them bowed her head. She learnt something good from the series.

Ramayan gives you many life lessons. One I remember now that goes like this -  Laxman goes to Shree Ram and asks him, "bhaiya Guruji Bata rahe the ki aap swayam bhagwan Shree Vishnu ke avatar hai. Pitaji ko aapki jivan Shaili ka pura abhas tha. Unhe pahle se pata tha ki kya hone wala hai. Fir ye duke, vilap aur pida ku hue unko." 
Shree Ram says, “Bhagwan toh hum sab main hai. Tum swayam Bhagwan ka Ansh hi ho. Hum sab Manav hai isliye manushya Moh Maya ke Jaal m fasa hua hai. Isliye unhe ye pida ka anubhav hua.
This is true that we all are in control of our desires. We are running constantly to attain worldly comforts. When we get One then suddenly we realise that other thing will give us more pleasure. So we start running towards that and we never get satisfied with what we have. That’s absolutely true.

I was watching Irrfan khan’s interview and found one thing was common in every interview where he says "we all have a very personal connection with God and that is our personal thing”. That’s right. I think if you personally connect with Shree Ram, it brings immense happiness within you. Everyone can discover something different in him. That’s completely our personal connection with Shree Ram.
When we say Maryada Purushottam, It creates an image of Shree Ram in our mind. He made sacrifices to uphold his people’s respect and function in accordance with ‘Dharm’, without letting his own personal feelings or outcomes affect the decisions. This is what makes him the much revered King popular right across the length and breadth of India. This is why we respect him and worship him as a God.

Jai Shree Ram!

Thursday, 30 April 2020

Legends - Signing off!

An era ended!
Sad sad day in India!
Year 2020 proving to us yet again that life is unpredictable!
Yesterday Irrfan Khan left the world and today Rishi Kapoor.  Unbelievable!
We have lost two legends in the last 24 hours. I got the message in watsapp stating Rishi Kapoor is no more. I was like "nahi koi majak kar raha hai"(someone is joking).
It is unbelievable that we have lost the two legends within 24 hours of each other.

Signing off from the World!

 May the departed souls rest in peace!

Wednesday, 29 April 2020

Indian Gem "Irrfan Khan"




Painter:-  Mayur Gangasagar.
Name of painting:- Soul connection!
Date:-  29 April 2020
It is really a shocking news for all of us. Irrfan Khan is no more. I barely watch movies or keep abreast of Bollywood happenings but this has shocked me to the core. There are only handful of real talented actors who do meaningful movies and still fewer loved ones like Irfan khan. I have always loved to watch his movies and the intensity he brings to his acting.
On Doordarshan, his "Shrikant" tv serial is airing now. Some of his tv serials and movie characters were much loved. I am watching these old serials because of him. It's really heartbreaking news for everyone. No one would have thought he would die during this pandemic. No one was there except his family to say the last good byes. All we can do now is post goodbye messages on social media...! With heavy hearts! Hope he could see how we love him and admire his acting.
Much love to him.
May his soul rest in peace!

Monday, 27 April 2020

Quarantine ! Covid19 a life lessons.


We all are suffering from this dangerous pandemic disease. Which is spreading like a spiderweb all over the world. We all need to do is to make a safe social distance. This is a very difficult time for us. Life has stopped. Things are not working. Because we are moving fast with time. Time is running from our hand. Fixed lifestyle. How to cope with the situation. I was a little depressed with the situation when the lockdown was started. One week passed, then seconds weeks with the hope that everything will be alright. But the situation remains the same nothing is going to change sooner. It will take time. Loss of people from this disease will take time to heal loved ones.
COVID-19
This pandemic is giving us an important lesson about life. Do you know "when you stayed at home without thinking of tomorrow?" I know still, we are worried about our future what is going to happen the next day.....but feel the togetherness with your family. Working people can be relaxed now at home and see their surroundings. What is the daily routine of their loved ones? I am damn sure about women's are making tasty cuisine for their family. Why? Because she wanted to make sure everything is gonna be okay. Don't worry.
Come to my situation I was too depressed I am with my daughter alone in the apartment. My daughter is 1.5 years old. No one with me. Neighbours are helpful but I didn't want any help from them. Because of the Corona Virus. It was difficult for me. My family stuck in other places. I was begging to shop vendor to deliver essential thing at my doorstep. So, difficult it drew me crazy. I started yelling on my daughter. What to do? It makes me feel now that I was behaving like an idiot. So what to do?..... How to get out of the situation....? How to develop positivity within you?
I know the news channel has taken our rest form our life.....



To be continued... How did I develop positivity? How little things can give us happiness

So share your thoughts with me tell me your views.....till then!

Stay Home! Stay Safe!



Friday, 28 February 2020

Monday, 17 February 2020

Unwanted Guest

"I am alive, what? I am alive, how? Why?".
Lali was in a lot of pain. She tried to run away from that place. She didn't know where she was. But wanted to be home any how. She woke up to see sunny rays. An 8 year old girl wanted to escape from the place where she had come with the flow of water.  Her family, belongings, cattle had all flown with water. 
"Mummy”, she was calling her mother.
Didn't find her.
Almost rain has stopped.
She was starving. She needs food. 
Thinking of how her mother fed her. Made chapattis and bottle gourd dish which she didn’t like. But now she is missing the same taste. 
Although, she didn’t like it.
“If I will get this right now, I will love to have it.” She was hungry! She needed her mother.
"But where is mummy? Please come.”
Even after a lot of effort she wasn’t able to find her mother. 
She was running out from the bushy grass which had grown too much because of rain. She was afraid of insects which could be dangerous.
She started running. Suddenly she saw her leg stuck into a bog.
She was struggling to came out.
She managed to pull her leg. This time she was more cautious on the road.
“Oh God help me”.
“This road is too long, how can I get back to my place”
She recalled what had just happened when she was playing in her veranda. Her mother was calling her “come Lali, It’s starting to rain heavily”. 
But Lali ignored her mother. “Why did I not listen to mummy” she regretted her actions now. 
She saw waves after waves of water come towards her house. Cattle where getting restless in there shelter. They wanted to escape but only some of them were loosely tied. 
Lali was watching all this, smiling.
“Don’t worry Rani, it will stop”, Lali tried to calm down her cow, her favourite play buddy. Now she was starting to miss them for the first time.

Lali tried recollecting what had just happened. It was only few moments before that her mother was calling her forcefully. “Lali, come inside my child. Something is not good. Come quickly”.
But Lali did not show any urgency. She had smiled and nodded.
Instead of going inside, she had ran towards Rani. Her mother was shouting “No don’t go there. Come back! Come back!”.
That was the last time she had heard her moms voice.
Strong water waves pushed her and took her off her feet.
She was unable to see anything. as she was unable What happened to her in one blink of an eye”
She felt the water pushing her, where she didn’t know. 
She could hear people are screaming. Some of them were calling a god for helping them. Some of them gripped what ever they found. Tried to save themselves. But I felt pity for cattle’s who were unable to hold anything. They were screaming for help. How anyone could have helped them in this flooding. She was observing everything thing. She felt could stuck in something but water was too cruel. It was flushing everything out. I was floating with water.
“Mummy help me”
 At last water had thrown me out like a garbage. I stuck in a tree branches.
I felt sleepy. I slept off.
“Mummy where are you?” 
“I should have listened to you”. She was talking to herself.


To be continued.......

Is she able to find her mother? 

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Thursday, 20 June 2019

Home of my aspirations!

Finally got home of my aspirations. It was too difficult journey for us to had interior of our house as we wanted. We met lot of designer and architec to made our house beautiful. Sometimes, it was too costly and sometimes we didn't like the idea of designer. Too difficult. I am an artist by profession and by nature also. I wanted my house to be different from any other house. Very artistic and close to the nature. 
So , I decided to do interior of my house by my own. Then journey started six months ago. I kept researching on Internet. Watching interior design shows on television. And then finally got the idea to make my house beautifully design to live and feel fresh everyday. It was not too easy as I was writing it very easily. Going to share exciting story on Home of my aspirations. Have patients be with me. Sharing some pictures.


 To be continue.....

Monday, 1 April 2019

Honesty




In childhood, we all learnt “Honesty is the best policy”. Honesty inspires us to become a good and loyal person. Honestly, we like honest people around us. It is not easy to find this characteristic in everybody. Being genuine and honest to make their own self strong and stand alone. Honest person can win your trust easily. That shows the good and strong character of a person. Today, my story is based on this subject.

Puja was working since long in Shweta's house. It was almost 5 years of helping her in house chores. Shweta was in a hurry, she left for office. It was not her first time she left puja all alone at home for completing house chores.

That day Shweta came early in the evening because she forgot to collect that money at home which she had to pay to the carpenter. She was looking out for money which she has left on the T.V stand purposely to find it sure enough when she gets ready today morning to leave for office.
However, she couldn't see anything there. It was quite easy for her to doubt puja because she was all alone at home. Shweta was searching furiously. But she didn’t find it. 
Amay reached from office and found Shweta worried. 
“Hey, what happened? Anything serious.” Amay asked.

       
“Yes, I kept the money here,”
Shweta pointed towards the T.V stand, 
“But now I am unable to find it.” She told him.
“I think you forgot, try to remember where you could have kept it” he suggested.
“No, I am sure I came from office kept money here. So, it would be easy for me to remember to give it to the carpenter but I forgot to pick it up in the morning because I was in hurry to get to office.” She said. 
“Do you think puja can steal it?” She asked.
How would I know? But she has been working for 5 years. I don’t think so, she can steal it” he said.
“Please stop taking her side, you don’t know, how clever they are? They can do anything for money. They always need money. I don’t think she will come tomorrow. She took the money.” She said.
“You are getting too hypothetical,” he said. 
“Everyone is not same. We will ask her tomorrow but then you try to remember where you  can keep it.” He insisted on her.
He went to get fresh.
But Shweta is too sure and keep damning puja. She sat on the couch, kept her face down in worry. And kept talking. “50 thousand is a big amount, how she can do this to me. I always help her during her necessity.”
“5 years of trust she has broken it, I think she needs money terribly that’s why she did this” she was babbling. 
“Relax now will ask her tomorrow,” Amay said.
“How could I relax,” she said.
“Shweta come here,” he said.
“What happened?” she said.
“Please come” he insisted.
“What?” I said
“See here you keep the money in the drawer and forgot,” he said.
She was happy and quite embarrassing for her thought. She had a mixed feeling.
She took money to keep in self. Again babbling “I didn’t keep money here, I am sure about it.” 
“I thought that it would be easy for me to look out for money when i would about to leave for office. That was the reason I kept it on T.V stand.” She said.
“You kept 50 thousand here because you wanted to remember easily. Are you kidding? He took a deep breath. Okay, I am going to have dinner. Do you want to come?” He asked.
“Yes”,  she said.
Next morning puja had come for house chores. 
“Puja you came late again I have to leave for the office now,” i said. 
“You go I will take care of everything.”Puja said.
“Didi, do you find money I kept it in dressing drawer.” She said.
“Oh, you kept it there.”  Shweta asked.
“Yes,” puja said.
“Money was here on tea table I thought you forgot to keep it. It was easily visible. So, I thought I should keep it in the drawer.” She said.
“Didi, take care from now onwards, keep money inside always. This is not good habit.” puja kept chattering.
Shweta smiled at her and left out for office.

Friday, 22 February 2019

14 Feb!

Happy Valentine's Day ! 

I was reading the newspaper one morning. I came across a column of various offers and checked the date of the newspaper. It was 14 Feb, Valentine's day. After marriage, this seems like a normal day most of the time. I ran towards Sheetal’s apartment and rang the bell. Sheetal opened the door.
"Hey, Happy Valentine's day," I said. I saw her face and asked her, "Why do you look so sad? Where is Shekhar?" 
Sheetal replied, "He had to join the duty. He went in the night."
"Alright", I said, "let's go shopping."
Sheetal said "No, I am expecting Shekhar's call in the evening. I should be at home."
"You can receive your call anywhere." I replied. "Anyway, he will call you in the evening. See my husband is on tour and Shekhar also left to join his duty. So let's celebrate Valentine 's Day together. You will feel good." 
"Alright, but not now. Let's go in the evening," Sheetal suggested.
I agreed and went back home to finish my housework. Then I got ready to go but it was 4:30 pm. I switched on the TV and tried to pass my time till 5 pm. While changing the channels, I came across the news channel which broadcasted the news of the terror attack on an army bus. 
I thought about Shekhar. I ran towards Sheetal's apartment. Memories of Sheetal and Shekhar flooded my mind and made me emotional. They got married six months ago and she stayed here with her in-laws. "She is young. Oh, how would Shekhar's parents react?" I asked myself. 
When I reached Sheetal's apartment, she came out and said, "I knew that you will come on time. Wait, let me get my purse."
"Wait," I said. "Where is uncle and aunty?" 
"They went for a walk," she replied. 
I asked her to switch on the television but she said, "No, we don't have time. Let's go."
When I insisted, she switched on the TV and I made her watch the terror attack news. Her face went pale and she sat down in melancholy.
I held her tightly in my arms and tried to console her. After 15 minutes, the phone rang. Since Sheetal's wasn't in the condition to attend the call, I picked up the phone instead.

"Hello, where is sheetal?" Shekhar asked from the other end.
"Shekhar! But the news?" I asked.
"Yes I know. I am about to reach my destination. Tell Sheetal to talk now because I don't know when I can get time to talk next." Shekhar said.
Just then Shekhar's parents arrived from their walk and said, "You both are still here. Didn't go out yet?"  

I just walked out without uttering a word and came back to my apartment. 
Switching on the TV, I sat on the couch watching the protest on social media. We, the people, can bewail on martyrs death. 
What makes them so strong? Always ready to serve their country without the apprehension of death. They give us a safe and secure life to celebrate our special day with our loved ones! 

I am thankful to those who are fighting to protect us and continuously serve our country.
Salute to their families!

Jai Hind !


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Thursday, 14 February 2019

Getting Older!

The topic seems quite interesting to me because I am surrounded by those who are getting old. I feel old some time while dealing with younger generations. This stage is very difficult for people to accept they are getting old, their thought is old and not accepted by young people or I can say millennials. The difference of thinking is that, older people forget once they were also young and they used to think the same way when they were in the same stage, Most of the time they behave mawkishly. There is a huge discrepancy between both generations. Lack of acceptance of thought which we called the generation gap.
An incident related to this I am going to share with you. While I was at the bus stop I saw an elderly man and there were a  group of youngsters, all waiting for the buses to arrive.  The Youngsters were smoking in their group. The man in his heavy voice asked the boys not to smoke in public place.
At first, they ignored him and continued smoking without a bother.  Again the elderly man asked them not to smoke, now with irritation.
The elderly man was correct because there were many people waiting for the bus prone to passive smoking. They were getting irritated with smoking but no one wanted to say anything. Because everyone was in there own thoughts. Some of them covered their face but no one wanted to mess with them. This time the boy replied, "what is your problem?" Very rudely.
But then my bus arrived. I boarded the bus and looked back at the man.
The man was standing there shocked by the boy’s rude reply. Quite embarrassed. He would not have expected that, I don't think he insisted further.
But left lots of questions in my mind. And this story to tell.



Sun Set image!


                            "Old age and the passage of time teach all things". Sophocles


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Sunday, 10 February 2019

Freedom at a Cost!






“We, the People, recognize that we have responsibilities as well as rights; that our destinies are bound together; that a freedom which only asks what's in it for me, a freedom without a commitment to others, a freedom without love or charity or duty or patriotism, is unworthy of our founding ideals, and those who died in their defense. Barack Obama”


We all are aware about the sacrifices people from all sects had made to achieve independence. It was hard earned and was attained at a huge cost. Different people followed different philosophies and approach to serve the motherland and there was only one thing to go after. Indepedence from foreign rule. There was no ambiguity in the objective. People were allowed to follow the path they had convictions on. But as was apparent, they had major differences of Openion on the best way to pursue the ultimate objective. 
It seems quite similar to the analogy about religion where people practice different faiths but the ultimate goal is quite similar.
Today the task is to maintain this Independence and understand the idea of Freedom in its true sense. And the challenges are quite similar to the ones that we faced over 70 to 100 years ago. The fight is to become representatives of the majority thought and take it to the logical conclusion. And this fight is not just for the Political class to participate in but for all those who want this country to be united and want it to progress proudly into the future.
That brings me to the Idea of Indian-ness. When India agrees on a thought, what does it actually mean. When we pass any law in the Indian parliament, what does it actually mean. My thought alone is not representative of what India thinks, but it may just be a small proportion of the final view that is adopted as a law or rule to follow in India. This is where leaders, may be majorly political but all others as well who excel in their chosen fields and command some following need to play their parts.
'Cost' I mention in the subject is the personal openions that are so true and obvious to me as an individual. This may be non-negotiable for my personal space and this may mean the Freedom to practice my culture and religion and other similar things i deem essential for my independence.
'Price' is the open mindedness and the Indian-ness for the larger good of our Society. If we have no tolerance for an alternate thought to our own or our own smaller religious or other like minded groups, then we are not prepared to pay the price for the Freedom that our ancestors fought for and then this is not the same 'Idea of India'.
I think its a great time now to understand the Idea of India. India, that is a set of multiple Individuals who differ in education, occupation, habits, likes, dislikes, beliefs and almost everything that can be different. It's a challenge very few would be able to take up in its true spirit and this is the ultimate price we need to pay to maintain our Independence going forward.
May the true leaders stand up and take charge. 

Wednesday, 6 February 2019

Meditation For Us!


                                             
"Meditation means the mind is turned back upon itself. The mind stops all the thought-waves and the world stops. Your consciousness expands. Every time you meditate you will keep your growth."   Swami Vivekanand!


Whenever I think about Meditation it reminds me of my school days. When I learned this from my yoga teacher. Very curious I was when they were telling us about the benefits of yoga. When we were kids everything excited us. ”Meditation” The word just struck my mind. That day I thought I was going to learn something miraculous, the teacher was telling us about meditation I wanted to absorb every bit of knowledge about meditation. The time had come when our meditation teacher gave us the secret mantra to chant during meditation. One by one we were going from our group. In all this excitement and waiting for my chance. I looked around it was a big hall. We called it Meditation room. There were spiritual paintings hanging on the wall but the painting attracted me a lot was Swami Vivekananand. It had been said that Swami Vivekanand was born Dhayan Siddha i.e perfect in meditation by birth. I was observing painting carefully with full of thoughts.

I heard Chetna your turn, the time had come when I was going to get life secret. Finally, the wait was over. Further moving ahead towards the dark room I could see the illustration of the yoga teacher. She called me, come chetna. yes, ma’am, I said to her, She hold my shoulder with her hand. Whispered the secret mantra and said "don't tell anyone". I came out felt like "I carry the day".
That was the day when i came close to Meditation. It makes me emotionally calm. Mentally clear my thoughts, focusing on my work and control my thoughts. Provides me a full of energy day, including good health and always a fresh mind.
Meditation control our senses. Gives us a perfect sense of better Life. The practice of Meditation leads us towards a healthy life.
Everyone comes across a few moments in their life which change their views forever.
However, the mantra is still a secret for everyone.πŸ˜‰
Actually, Meditation itself a secret of flourishing and blissful life.
                      

Wednesday, 23 January 2019

New Beginning



                              

New Beginning, New birth

Six months ago I delivered a beautiful baby girl.

It’s a new chapter of my life as a mother. And I find myself happy and joyful all the time now. I was not like this earlier. I was a very cranky person and got irritated easily. I hated talking to anyone in the morning, and wanted to be by myself all the time.

After delivering the baby, I noticed that she woke up at odd hours in the night. It was difficult for me to handle her tantrums. I used to be so irritated by this. Sometimes I used to yank her and scream with frustration. But she cried more to irritate me further.


Every morning I drowned myself in self pity until one day I decided to try something new. I waited for her to wake up in the night. And like always, she woke up at 2:00 am. Instead of being irritated, I smiled at her. I was happy to see that she tried to respond back in the same way.


It then became my daily routine. No matter what time she woke up, I used to be joyful in fornt of her and make her smile. I kept doing this and soon realised that babies are a reflection of our character. They reflect back how we behave with them. Now people ask me why my baby is so calm and doesn’t get agitated.


She is only six months old but is quite sober minded. She catches up things quickly because I used to talk her. She loves music and I like to recite mantras to her. Whenever I am busy with work, I engage her with me. She observes things and tries to revert back with her expressions and keeps on smiling. I want her to observe things, so that she feels more comfortable with me and does not get agitated.


When I was pregnant someone told me babies are like soft clay. You can give them any shape. It is upon us how much effort we will put on our kid to make them better person in life.


Because babies are not growing with us, we are growing older with them!

Tuesday, 22 January 2019

Hare Krishna!



KRISHNA is The Idea that has taken over the World!

The Concept is quite an ultimate in terms of the need it serves. It gives you hope, it enables you to fight it out. It teaches you to live in the present. And most importantly, It allows you to love without judgement. It urges one to take control of his own destiny and become the 'Arjun' who can see clearly even in times of grave difficulty and come out a Winner.

Shree Krishna played numerous characters and all to perfection-  the Son, the Friend, the Lover and then finally the guide who unlocks the secrets to wisdoms of life. These numerous relations makes it easy for people to relate with the God and come closer to him. He is the companion who loves his disciples and guides them in all stages and situations of life. He is the God who is fun loving and does not endorse the strict virtuous being devoid of the pleasures of life.

Krishna preaches to play the game and accept the challenges of life head on. He talks about the decision making process in various situations of life. And he talks about the NO regret model of life. 'Karm' is the Objective and the prime focus in life and taking the side of 'Dharm' will make you victorious. And You don't need to fear anything as you are the Soul, the transient, the energy and not the body, the physical. The Notion that you cannot in reality possess anything worldly but only use them, even your own body as a mere instrument or tool to carry out your 'dharm', is a powerful and enabling Idea.

Jai Shree Krishna.


Radhe Radhe

Sunday, 20 January 2019

Yoga





I thought I should write about Yoga. How Yoga is important in our life. What inherent ability yoga has which can change one's life. I am not convincing you about yoga after all it's your life. But sharing my positive experience. How yoga changed my life. Here I am writing about yoga. When I started yoga that time I was suffering from deficiencies and ignored so many things about my health when I was working. In results of that I invited deficiencies in my body. The thing is, remedies are easily available but ignoring health issue is alarming.
I developed Spondylitis which is one of the common problem in this technological era. I was unable to walk, unable to bend my body and I slept in any position my body got stuck up in! I was too afraid to sleep! That was the time when I thought that's it. My life is over now. Nothing is left in my life.
Then I decided to go deeply into sprituality. I started waking up early in the morning, which I still do. I started doing yoga in the morning. Everyday with all the positivity, happiness and energy I started my day early in the morning. Within a week I felt some differences in my body. I was feeling more energetic then before!
That day I came to know that yoga has that innate ability to spread positivity in one's life.
I am thankful to the divine god to keep faith on me and show me a grate and fruitful way to improve my morbid body.
It has been a very positive journey yet from starting yoga to getting used to  doing yoga.

And believe me,  the journey has truly been worth the while!

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Tuesday, 15 January 2019

“Motherhood”




Such a beautiful word - “Mother”. 

When I was a kid I didn’t know the importance of the mother. I knew that mother was for serving food, filling my empty stomach, washing clothes and taking care of the whole family. It is simple for me to describe my Mom as a full-time worker with no salary. What an irony, a mother who is the pillar of the family, who works so hard on holidays also, sometimes everybody takes her for granted. I am one of those who unable to understand my mother’s sacrifice for me. I saw my mother who fed the whole family in the house, yet ate stale roti because she felt lazy to make roti for herself. But she was the only one who wanted everyone to eat fresh food. Why? I couldn’t ever understand. I never said to my mother to give me half of the stale roti.
Now that I have myself become a mother,  I can understand what deep love she has for all of us children.

Mother is a stepping stone in everyone’s life, we learn life skills from her. Our first guru is our mother. She gives us life. She gives us purpose to live and teaches us about life’s ups and downs. She always wants us to be more successful in life and feels happy even in our small achievements and encourages us to touch the sky!   Isn’t it that mother is the most important influence of on kids.

I truly understood the meaning of this beautiful word mother, when I became a mother of such a beautiful daughter. 

I feel the same things as a mother, ones my mother felt for me. I owe my mother this life. 


                “There is a mother in everyone’s life because God cannot be everywhere!”.



Wednesday, 30 August 2017

Prayers of positivity πŸ™πŸ»




How important is our everyday prayerπŸ™πŸ»? Today I am going to write on prayers of positivity. Every religions do prayer. Ask something's from god, want something. Sometime your prayer accepted by god and then we are more thankful to god. We pray for more in return serve them with delicious food, sweets, with beautiful flowers and sometime offer bribe. Even I do. Who won't like things of their choices….πŸ˜„
But is there god exist. Do you see god? In any religion do we actually see god. I think no, a big no. 🀐 But god is in our mind, he is always with us. God is a belief. A positive energy which we carry with us all the time. As far as I am concerned that positivity in all the negative situations which give us vibes of positiveness that makes us believe in god. That energy and positivity make your wish come true. I believe god is in you. He is with you, stay with you all the time. I think worshiping the idol is the medium to deliver our prayers to god and convincing ourselves that god do exist. So, prayer is important. when you are happy and when your in deep sorrow.πŸŽ­πŸ™πŸ»

Tuesday, 29 August 2017

🌺Ganpati Bappa Morya🌺

                                           

πŸŒΊπŸ™πŸ» "Ganpati Bappa" a god with elephant head. Before any virtuous function or rituals, we Indians use to pray Ganpati first. Ganpati is an optimal for us in India. There is a very interesting story behind great Ganesha. We Indians are very religious. We have 330 millions gods and goddesses. We have 9 recognised religions. In each religion there is a cast system, there are 3000 casts and 25 thousand subcast, each related to a specific occupation. Each religion have their own festivals and their own way of celebration. Which has been celebrated every year immensely in India. All this festival bind all of us together. On any occasion or festival we forget our rivalry, stick together to celebrate our occasion. Enjoying without hard feelings. One of the biggest example of unity in India is " Ganesh Utsav". A festival which only brings happiness and spread happiness all over the country. 

Ganpati festival celebrates in all India. We welcome Ganesha on a particular month, a day and most importantly on a particular time. It is recognition that it brings prosperity, good luck and happiness in our life. We always ask a priest for good time before functioning any ritual. You can see ganpati grand celebrations in Maharashtra. In Maharashtra atmost every family invites Ganpati Bappa serve them with their best services, take care of ganpati as a family member. He stay with us for few days and then leave the house with the promise that they will come again next year. In all these days each and every day is a celebration. People put lots of  efforts to make ganpati bappa happy and make his stay comfortable. His special sweet is " Modak". He loves Modak. This is the only festival in India which has no boundaries of religion. Every home in India welcomes Ganpati with ecstasy. Ganpati is not only a name of god,  is a believe. Ganesha is with us, he protect us from all misery. He has many names, He has elephant head so he is "Gajanan". He protect us from obstacles so he is "vighanaharta". He has beautiful face so he is "sumukha". He has one tooth so he is "Ekdant". He has large belly so he is "Lambodar" . He has quality to lead so he is "Vinayak". There is a vast list of his name with different quality. Ganpati brings happiness in our life, left all of us with tears when he is going back. This experience of Ganesh utsav is unforgettable every year. πŸ™πŸ»πŸŒΊ

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