New Beginning

                              

New Beginning, New birth

Six months ago I delivered a beautiful baby girl.
It’s a new chapter of my life as a mother. And I find myself happy and joyful all the time now. I was not like this earlier. I was a very cranky person and got irritated easily. I hated talking to anyone in the morning, and wanted to be by myself all the time.

After delivering the baby, I noticed that she woke up at odd hours in the night. It was difficult for me to handle her tantrums. I used to be so irritated by this. Sometimes I used to yank her and scream with frustration. But she cried more to irritate me further.

Every morning I drowned myself in self pity until one day I decided to try something new. I waited for her to wake up in the night. And like always, she woke up at 2:00 am. Instead of being irritated, I smiled at her. I was happy to see that she tried to respond back in the same way.

It then became my daily routine. No matter what time she woke up, I used to be joyful in fornt of her and make her smile. I kept doing this and soon realised that babies are a reflection of our character. They reflect back how we behave with them. Now people ask me why my baby is so calm and doesn’t get agitated.

She is only six months old but is quite sober minded. She catches up things quickly because I used to talk her. She loves music and I like to recite mantras to her. Whenever I am busy with work, I engage her with me. She observes things and tries to revert back with her expressions and keeps on smiling. I want her to observe things, so that she feels more comfortable with me and does not get agitated.

When I was pregnant someone told me babies are like soft clay. You can give them any shape. It is upon us how much effort we will put on our kid to make them better person in life.

Because babies are not growing with us, we are growing older with them!

Hare Krishna!

KRISHNA is The Idea that has taken over the World!

The Concept is quite an ultimate in terms of the need it serves. It gives you hope, it enables you to fight it out. It teaches you to live in the present. And most importantly, It allows you to love without judgement. It urges one to take control of his own destiny and become the 'Arjun' who can see clearly even in times of grave difficulty and come out a Winner.

Shree Krishna played numerous characters and all to perfection-  the Son, the Friend, the Lover and then finally the guide who unlocks the secrets to wisdoms of life. These numerous relations makes it easy for people to relate with the God and come closer to him. He is the companion who loves his disciples and guides them in all stages and situations of life. He is the God who is fun loving and does not endorse the strict virtuous being devoid of the pleasures of life.

Krishna preaches to play the game and accept the challenges of life head on. He talks about the decision making process in various situations of life. And he talks about the NO regret model of life. 'Karm' is the Objective and the prime focus in life and taking the side of 'Dharm' will make you victorious. And You don't need to fear anything as you are the Soul, the transient, the energy and not the body, the physical. The Notion that you cannot in reality possess anything worldly but only use them, even your own body as a mere instrument or tool to carry out your 'dharm', is a powerful and enabling Idea.

Jai Shree Krishna.

Radhe Radhe

Yoga

I thought I should write about Yoga. How Yoga is important in our life. What inherent ability yoga has which can change one's life. I am not convincing you about yoga after all it's your life. But sharing my positive experience. How yoga changed my life. Here I am writing about yoga. When I started yoga that time I was suffering from deficiencies and ignored so many things about my health when I was working. In results of that I invited deficiencies in my body. The thing is, remedies are easily available but ignoring health issue is alarming.
I developed Spondylitis which is one of the common problem in this technological era. I was unable to walk, unable to bend my body and I slept in any position my body got stuck up in! I was too afraid to sleep! That was the time when I thought that's it. My life is over now. Nothing is left in my life.
Then I decided to go deeply into sprituality. I started waking up early in the morning, which I still do. I started doing yoga in the morning. Everyday with all the positivity, happiness and energy I started my day early in the morning. Within a week I felt some differences in my body. I was feeling more energetic then before!
That day I came to know that yoga has that innate ability to spread positivity in one's life.
I am thankful to the divine god to keep faith on me and show me a grate and fruitful way to improve my morbid body.
It has been a very positive journey yet from starting yoga to getting used to  doing yoga.

And believe me,  the journey has truly been worth the while!
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“Motherhood”

Such a beautiful word - “Mother”. 
When I was a kid I didn’t know the importance of the mother. I knew that mother was for serving food, filling my empty stomach, washing clothes and taking care of the whole family. It is simple for me to describe my Mom as a full-time worker with no salary. What an irony, a mother who is the pillar of the family, who works so hard on holidays also, sometimes everybody takes her for granted. I am one of those who unable to understand my mother’s sacrifice for me. I saw my mother who fed the whole family in the house, yet ate stale roti because she felt lazy to make roti for herself. But she was the only one who wanted everyone to eat fresh food. Why? I couldn’t ever understand. I never said to my mother to give me half of the stale roti.
Now that I have myself become a mother,  I can understand what deep love she has for all of us children.

Mother is a stepping stone in everyone’s life, we learn life skills from her. Our first guru is our mother. She gives us life. She gives us purpose to live and teaches us about life’s ups and downs. She always wants us to be more successful in life and feels happy even in our small achievements and encourages us to touch the sky!   Isn’t it that mother is the most important influence of on kids.
I truly understood the meaning of this beautiful word mother, when I became a mother of such a beautiful daughter. 

I feel the same things as a mother, ones my mother felt for me. I owe my mother this life. 

                “There is a mother in everyone’s life because God cannot be everywhere!”.